Today on Mystery Mondays we have author, Joanne Guidoccio. Joanne is the author of Too Many Women In The Room. Doesn’t the title just make you want to read her book?
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How Toastmasters Helped Me Find My Writing Voice
When I retired from teaching in 2008, I was determined to create an oasis of calm. Three decades of teaching mathematics to adolescents had cured me of any “yang” tendencies. Or so I thought. After several months of luncheon dates, book club meetings, afternoon yoga sessions, and large blocks of reading time, I found myself suffering from “yin” overload.
In short, I was bored.
I toyed with the prospect of launching a second act as a writer and spent considerable time preparing for my new career. New business cards. New computer. And dreams of a runaway best-seller.
One problem – my underdeveloped writing muscles refused to budge.
On a whim, I visited Royal City Toastmasters. Not knowing what to expect, I relaxed when I saw twelve people in the room, most of them women. I felt an instant camaraderie with the group and volunteered to participate in Table Topics (one to two minutes of impromptu speaking). As I stood in the front of the room, I received many encouraging smiles. I took several deep breaths and started to share an anecdote. At one point, everyone started clapping.
Was I that good? That profound? Thinking back, I could recall only one example of students clapping during my classes: I had canceled a test. Later, I learned that clapping was a signal that I had gone beyond the allotted time limit.
At the end of my second visit, I joined the club, with the understanding that my attendance would be sporadic, and I would not be completing any of the designations or hopping on the leadership track. While I admired the rising stars in the club, I had no desire to share their ambitions. I was retired and didn’t need any unnecessary stress in my life.
All that changed on the evening of my Icebreaker speech. I felt the proverbial butterflies and panicked when I saw ten extra guests that evening. I also worried about my choice of topic, “Seasons of my Life.” Would the speech be too deep, too personal? My worries were short-lived. Everyone enthusiastically responded to my speech, and I received many compliments afterward. More importantly, I enjoyed the adrenaline rush. So much so, that I pestered the Education VP for more speech opportunities. Several months later, I joined a second Toastmasters club. With six meetings a month, I was well on my way to completing the ten speeches in the Competent Communicator manual.
While I continued to read voraciously, I found myself scribbling comments and insights that later morphed into book reviews. I polished one of those reviews and sent it off to the editor of a local paper. He published the piece and invited me to join the ranks of contributing reviewers.
The quality of my writing also improved. Fewer shrinkers (words like “just,” “actually,” and “almost”) and disclaimers (“I’m not an expert, but”). More action verbs. More sharing of personal anecdotes. And a bubbling curiosity about different topics, among them health and wellness, careers, money management, and personal growth and development.
A writing practice slowly emerged, and I watched with delight as my articles appeared in newspapers, magazines, and online. Buoyed by this success, I resurrected an old writing dream concocted during my high school years and penned a novel. Three more followed and, after many queries, four publishing contracts.
On the Toastmaster front, I went on to complete the Competent Communicator, Competent Leadership, Bronze, and Silver designations. I have also won and placed in five speech contests and held three executive positions.
Nine years into retirement, I still enjoy my “yin” pursuits, and I’m continually challenged (in a good way) by the “yang” addition to my life.
Namaste
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When Gilda Greco invites her closest friends to a VIP dinner, she plans to share David Korba’s signature dishes and launch their joint venture— Xenia, an innovative Greek restaurant near Sudbury, Ontario. Unknown to Gilda, David has also invited Michael Taylor, a lecherous photographer who has throughout the past three decades managed to annoy all the women in the room. One woman follows Michael to a deserted field for his midnight run and stabs him in the jugular.
Gilda’s life is awash with complications as she wrestles with a certain detective’s commitment issues and growing doubts about her risky investment in Xenia. Frustrated, Gilda launches her own investigation and uncovers decades-old secrets and resentments that have festered until they explode into untimely death. Can Gilda outwit a killer bent on killing again?
Book Trailer
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WHO IS JOANNE GUIDOCCIO?
In 2008, Joanne retired from a 31-year teaching career and launched a second act that tapped into her creative side. Slowly, a writing practice emerged. Her articles and book reviews were published in newspapers, magazines, and online. When she tried her hand at fiction, she made reinvention a recurring theme in her novels and short stories. A member of Crime Writers of Canada, Sisters in Crime, and Romance Writers of America, Joanne writes cozy mysteries, paranormal romance, and inspirational literature from her home base of Guelph, Ontario.
Where to find Joanne…
Website: http://joanneguidoccio.com/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/joanneguidoccio
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/authorjoanneguidoccio
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joanneguidoccio
Pinterest: http://pinterest.com/jguidoccio/
Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/7277706.Joanne_Guidoccio
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Impressive, Joanne! I did laugh out loud at the clapping…
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Hi Judy, that made me laugh too.
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Thanks for hosting me, Kristina 🙂
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Hi Judy, I still cringe at the memory. For several seconds, my head swelled with pride. 🙂
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I can imagine. It’s must have been an odd moment in life.
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Me, too! And I enjoyed learning how your Toastmasters experience contributed to your writing career. Great post! –kate
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Thanks for dropping by, Kate 🙂
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Hi Kate, isn’t there always some new way of looking at this business of writing?
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The Toastmasters is a fascinating approach to launching your new career as a novelist, a very thoughtful and methodic route. Congratulations!
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Thanks Jacqueline! I acquired confidence that spilled over into my writing and other aspects of my life. Highly recommend Toastmasters! 🙂
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Hi Joanne,
You’re an inspiration! I’m petrified of standing up and giving a speech, my worst nightmare, lol
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Hi Jacquie, thanks for stopping by. I don’t mind speaking in front of a crowd if I know what I’m talking about. It’s when I’m unprepared that I get stressed!
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I get hives just thinking about it, lol
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Hi Jacquie, As Kristina said, Preparation is key. During my early Toastmaster days, I over-planned and over-prepared everything. Once I gained confidence, I found myself relying less on notes. 🙂
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Fun to meet Joanne. Sounds like you learned a lot from your experiences. 🙂 Thanks for sharing!
#getsocial17 (sorry, a little late finishing getting around to everyone)
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You’re very welcome, Jess 🙂
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Reblogged this on Don Massenzio's Blog and commented:
Joanne Guidoccio is featured in this Mystery Mondays post from Kristina Stanley’s blog
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Thanks for reblogging, Don 🙂
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You’re welcome
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Thanks, Don
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You’re welcome.
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